Part of being an ally is doing the work and the research for yourself. Discussing action steps with your non-white friends might be okay, but that is on a case-by-case basis, and you should absolutely check with them first. Right now, anything beyond checking in on those friends might be too much. They are exhausted. Communities of color do not have the time or the bandwidth right now, nor should they be expected to have to go out of their way to assist you in your pursuit to support, to assist, to elevate. So, it's important that you do the work yourself. But here are some resources anyway!
A list of curated compilations of anti-racist resources, including books, podcasts, articles, and organizations to follow or get involved with. If you have any more information about how these should be credited/who is responsible for them, please let us know!